
Choosing a Financial Advisor Who Gets You
Written by
Diani Van Graan
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Published on
Aug 15, 2025
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Choosing a financial advisor is more than just ticking a box. It’s about finding someone who understands what matters. It’s stability, freedom, time with your family, peace of mind, maybe even enough to take December off without panic, finally. Having run my small businesses and walked the early career rollercoaster myself, I know it’s not just about numbers.
It’s about building a life you believe in.
That’s why choosing the right advisor is less about spreadsheets — and more about finding a partner who believes in your vision and walks with you to get there.
With so many options out there, how do you know who’s right for you?
Understand What Kind of Advice You Need
Are you looking for help with:
Personal budgeting and saving?
Long-term retirement/risk planning?
Business advice for your side hustle or SME?
Short-term risk cover like house/car/content cover?
Tax-smart investment planning?
Not every advisor specializes in everything — and that’s okay. Look for someone whose focus and experience align with your current stage of life or business.
Check for Qualifications and Accreditation
In South Africa, a qualified advisor should:
Be registered with the FSCA (Financial Sector Conduct Authority)
Have a valid FSP (Financial Services Provider) number
Be licensed to advise on the specific products they offer (e.g., life cover, short-term insurance, investments)
Have the necessary qualifications (product-specific).
Tip: You can check representatives / Key individuals on the FSCA website — transparency is a green flag.
Ask How They Get Paid
There’s no one-size-fits-all here — but you deserve to understand how your advisor earns:
Commission-based: Often linked to product sales (e.g., insurance, investment funds)
Fee-based: Flat-rate consultation fees or planning packages
Hybrid: A mix of both
The important thing is honesty and clarity. You should never feel like advice is sales-driven or that you’re being pushed into something you don’t fully understand.
Look for Someone Who Listens, Not Just Talks
You want a financial partner, not a lecturer.
In your first meeting, ask yourself:
Do they ask good questions about your goals and values?
Are they open to working with your current budget or situation?
Do they explain things clearly?
The right advisor empowers you to understand your finances, not feel intimidated by them.
Make Sure It Feels Like a Fit
You’ll be sharing personal details about your life, your goals, and your worries. You should feel safe, respected, and supported — not rushed or judged.
It’s perfectly okay to meet with a few different advisors before deciding. Trust your gut and look for someone who:
Follows up
Speaks your language (literally and emotionally)
Celebrates your small wins with you — not just your investment returns
Ask for Client Testimonials or Referrals
Word of mouth still matters. Ask around — friends, colleagues, or other business owners — and don’t be afraid to request a few references. A great advisor will be proud to share the value they’ve added to real people’s lives.
Finally, Choose Someone Who Cares About Quality of Life, Not Just ROI
The right financial advisor won’t just ask you about your income or retirement date. They’ll ask:
What does a good life look like to you?
What do you want your money to do for you?
Do you want more time, more freedom, more peace?
When you find someone who values quality of life as much as financial growth — that’s where magic happens. They’ll help you create a financial plan that works for the life you want, not the one you’re told to chase.
Your advisor should be someone who believes in:
Rest, not just hustle
Clarity over confusion
Progress over perfection
Building wealth that’s meaningful — not just measurable.
Look for someone who gets that. Someone who gets you.

Diani Van Graan
Senior Financial & Legal Advisor
Diani is seasoned entrepreneur-turned-financial strategist. She’s built ventures from floral design studios to pioneering advisory firms alongside her husband, Albert—always anchored in her creed: “Greatness lies in simplicity, goodness, and truth.” Off-duty, she’s a protea-growing, trail-hiking bibliophile who crafts pour-over coffees at her wellness café and debates business psychology over dinners with her three kids. For Diani, financial planning isn’t just spreadsheets—it’s designing flexible, life-first strategies that let clients thrive in stability, adapt to change, and reclaim their power.